It's not even close.... A few additions/corrections to your list:
Lee beat Limmex twice, both majors; Red lost to Limmex twice
Lee beat Josh Alber twice, once by fall; Red lost to Alber
Lee beat Cole Weaver by major; Red lost to Weaver
Lee beat Vince Turk; Red split two matches with Turk
Red beat Diehl twice; Lee split two matches with Diehl, won by major, lost by fall
Lee beat Jack; Red lost to Jack twice
Both lost to: Michael Carr of Illinois and to Brock Zacherl of Clarion
Red finished strong in the NCAA Tournament with a nice 7th place finish after entering unseeded (I thought he should have been in the teens)
Lee finished strong in the NCAA Tournament, winning finishing 5th.
Both lost their first match in the NCAA Tournament and battled back well.
But when evaluating the full season, it's not close.