It is up to us, as coaches to make sure these young men act as just that, young men. I see the way some of the parents act and it is no coincidence that their children act the same way. I am only speaking of the ones that display poor sportsmaniship, I realize there are many great parents out there that are teaching their children humility and respect in victory and defeat. We can't control what they are taught at home, but we can control how they act when they are representing us as a school and a wrestling program. So many coachces are after the almighty win and respect and sportsmaniship falls to the wayside. In my opinion, you are doing a young man an injustice if you allow him to throw a fit just because he is a good wrestler and it will hurt your team if you suspend / discipline him. We, as coaches have an obligation to these young men to teach them life lessons like respect, sportsmanship, humility, and commitment no matter how good or bad of a wrestler they are. If you are not teaching this as a coach, I don't care what your record is, you are not doing your job!