well aware of the purpose of this site. I lived the life for many years, but I'm not blind to the fact that other activities prepare kids for life. Wrestling is not for everybody. Doesn't make those that choose not to participate weaker than the ones that do or ill prepared to face the challenges life will throw at them.
Does wrestling teach life lessons? Absolutely? Does participating in another sport, speech/debate, drama, journalism/yearbook, etc. teach life lessons? Absolutely. All i'm saying is each individual is different and if they choose to stop wrestling it's their choice. Should a coach try and retain them, yes. Should a coach pressure them into something they don't want to do? Nope.