So what would have been the problem with him throwing the medal in his bag excepting he got beat today and making sure it doesnt happen again? When he gets home, he can throw the medal away in the garbage, but me personally I think its disrespectful to anyone who exceeded their personal goals and achieved a second place medal. Your saying to that wrestler that 2nd sucks and just because his expectations are to get 1st it takes away from someone who excelled and got 2nd. Why is it a badge of honor to dismiss the achievement of 2nd place (maybe its not an achievement to him, but to many it is)? There are many ways to not except losing...running off the mat, throwing headgears, trashing medals, punching walls, not going to the podium, cussing out the official/coach/opponent, not shaking hands, not leaving the mat, etc. To me none of these shows signs of a respect for the sport. Why not wait until you get home to throw your fit? Why not stand there and respect someone elses accomplishment, and work harder to not let it happen again. The kids who lose with class dont expect to lose or accept it. They just find better ways to display their disapproval. Some throw fits for show, some show respect and commend your opponent knowing today you might have won, but you wont do it tomorrow.