Darren,
I like to thank you for the feedback. 200 women registered in Indiana with USA Wrestling seems kind of high to me. The only reason I say that is I went to many FS/ GR tournaments over the summer with my nephew and I did not see but maybe a handful of girls at every tournament. Even at State I did not see that many. Maybe there was more with the Folkstyle. The only reason I bring this up is that I am trying to understand what kind participation there is in the state. Due to the fact that my daughter who is in the 8th grade came to me a couple weeks ago and told me she is going out for the wrestling team instead of trying out for the Basketball team. I had a major breakdown and put my foot in my mouth not once but many times and said some means things. My wife did not say a word during the discussion, but did so after things calmed down. I told my wife during my years of wrestling, I never wrestled any girls and thank god I did not.
I asked my wife where in the heck did this come from. She told me that she thought that my daughter would like to spend more time with me and that she knows that this is the one sport that I truly love. I told my wife that I have gone to every basketball game and cheer for her and her twin sister. I help volunteer for club volleyball, and have supported them both all the way with anything that they did. I told my wife that I do not see anything good coming of this, and 90% of the time I am right. Last week at a barbecue my nephew brought the subject back up and he started with nasty remarks, and again I lost my cool. I basically told him if he very touched her or made a rude comment in any way, he would not live to see another day on the mat. This main reason I do not want her wrestling. The other problem I have is there is a boy on the team that she likes, and I told her it will not go well, and I can not handle the emotional baggage that comes with girls (That is my Wifes job). I told my wife that I do not have a problem with her wrestling with other girls, but I just do not want her wrestling with the boys. Maybe I am being overly protective and at times I feel like an oxymoron, because I tell my girls they can do anything they want except wrestle.
So as the ISWA Women?s Director I need to hear some logic as to way I should let my daughter wrestle and this goes for anybody else that wants to put their 2 cents on the subject.