Okay I know I'll catch some stuff here, but sit back and think about this for a minute. When these kids grow up and are in real life situations how often do they get a wrestle back? If they are in sales and go on a sales call, do they get a wrestle back if they blow their presentation? If they work on a factory floor and make a bad run of product does the company get a wrestle back when they are sued because their product hurt people? If a doctor or a nurse kills a patient by giving them a medicine they are allergic to do they get a wrestle back to bring that patient back to life? If a soldier calls in the wrong coordinates for an airstrike that kills not only themselves, but also takes the lives of his squad, do they get a wrestle back so that no one is dead in the end? These could all be an example of a small mistake made with huge consequences, I know these examples are extreme, but this sport teaches kids how to not only compete, but how to live life, to compete in life and how to succeed. Losses and failure are lessons in life that we all need. That make us better people by learning through these failures. If we take those lessons away from kids we make a weaker next generation.