Last season we had a kid named Matthew Cullen. Matthew was a Jv wrestler for three years. He was a career .500 wrestler. At the beginning of last season, it appeared that Matthew was going to be a four year JV wrestler. There was an injury or two that propelled Matthew into the varsity line up. He had a great season, and became a state qualifier. If you ask Matthew.. "do you have any regrets (as far as your high school career goes)?" he would surely say "no!" As far as that all goes... you can't just let a kid walk away... without laying it all out for them. Our team is a brotherhood, we all need each other to succeed. Most likely they will get their chance to shine (if the work is put in). Kids have one shot at high school. You have to let them know that they WILL regret leaving, if they choose to do so. Eveytime that the walk into a gym or wrestling room they will regret quitting. With that said... do not leave high school with regrets. Stick to sports, ask the prettiest girl out, and make good grades. Don't be the old guy at the bar or reunion, saying that he could have been great. These kids have one chance! Let them know this, and that you and the team will be there for the lows and highs. Basically if you quit... you will have regrets and sometimes regrets are not the best things to live with. As someone that coaches kids prior to them even stating elementary school, it kills me to see kids quit. I see these kids grow up. I see the highs and lows. I see some go onto greatness. I see some quit and go downhill. But... that our sport as a whole (peeks and valleys). It won't be easy to continue... but.... how many Matthew Cullen's do we know (not many) and how many could have beens do we know? As a coaches and mentors, we should make the kids aware of both types of guys, and encourage them to be a Matthew Cullen type.