I agree with you, you need to have a good mix of teams that you can beat and teams that can challenge you, along with the rival schools that get the fans in the seats and puts the pressure on the kids while on the mat. I am kind of in the same spot as you rdrodd. My Son is 3 and I really just want him to see it, enjoy watching it enough to where he makes the decision to want to try wrestling. Being a coach of the sport I get nervous that he is going to get burnt out but I want this to be something that we enjoy together as well . Finding the best club,team,coach that fits your kids toughness is the best. Making sure they have fun is the number 1 priority and as long as they are having fun, they will be successful in my opinion. Good luck to all the teams this weekend. Some high pressure matches will happen, their will be winners and losers. its inevitable that's why I love this sport. This is the time you get to leave it all out on the mat and if you didn't its your own fault.