Raise three fingers all you want, AFTER you get up off your opponent. I realize that you know him much better than I ever will, but from an outside perspective, this reflects very poorly on him. Maybe as someone on his inner circle, you cannot see how disrespectful these actions really are, even if he does not intend them to be. Just because someone does not intend to disrespect, does mean they do not need to consider the fact that they may do so. Think about the consequences of your actions before you act, and consider how you look, especially if you are representing your school.