I think more and more coaching wrestling is a young man's game. That is unless one is lucky enough to have a super-cool wife and zero kids... or perhaps one's own kid is part of the program. Factor in a mortgage and economy issues, and it is hard to create an adult life and continue coaching. To truly compete one has to coach year-round- all over the country- we all know that. Four years ago I went to see a financial planner to learn what I could do about saving some money. After studying my background, schedule, etc... the first thing he told me to do was quit coaching. At first I was shocked, but then he broke down all the hours I spent in the spring (freestyle), summer (camps, open room, clinics), and fall (conditioning) and showed me my potential income if I took a simple job waiting tables, mowing yards (I live in florida now), or bar tending. Quite frankly it was staggering.
We often read about kids burning out, but it happens to coaches too. With the growing demands in the classroom collecting data, statewide testing, NCLB, and all the other educational mumbo jumbo, coaching simply became a burden that stressed my life, girlfriend, and wallet. I won't even go into issues with societal changes, kids who simply quit, screaming parents, etc... Ten years was enough. I dont know about Indiana, but in Florida more and more teams, good teams, are losing experienced coaches for such reasons. Many schools are now having a tough time assembling a staff- let alone finding experienced head coaches.
I, for one, am glad there are young coaches right out of college willing to take on this sport. I hope parents think about this next time get upset with their kid's coaching staff over a difference of philosophy. It takes a ton of energy, dedication, and patience to run a wrestling program, so I think the new young coaches are great as they have the tools to make solid programs. Hopefully they will find solid mentors to guide them through their first few years- be it supportive parents and/or an experienced coach. The late Dave May and Coach Goddard from Ben Davis made all the difference in the world for me. Teaching wrestling was the easy part, but running a program is freakin' tough. Too bad some schools don't remember this when they run their 24 year old coaches off the mat over something like a trivial discipline issue.