Also, just because a wrestler doesn't come from an elite program doesn't mean they can't find success as a wrestler or as a coach. it seems that you normally fight for the underdog or the wrestlers who are not as well known so it seems weird that you have the feeling that coaches who aren't from elite programs would stifle the dreams or success of a wrestler. I think that most coaches would try to assist their wrestlers in realizing the effort that is needed in order to accomplish their goals. Wrestlers at different levels will need varying levels of effort to accomplish the same goal.
It's not "weird" it's my most recent experience. I do fight for the underdog because the underdog needs me. However I come from a generational wrestling family and Elite wrestling programs in high school and college. Why is that relevant? Because I know good wrestling, good leadership, and a winning mentality that is sourly lacking in some coaches in this area who are not only inept but also dream killers. Some won't like that I said that but I'll never win a popularity contest. What I will do is do my part to make certain your flacid assessment of the area does not come to fruition. I believe in visualization of a champions verbiage causing karmic fruitions.