sounds like a great match from reading your post. put it on youtube so we can all see it. remember when i was a kid (early 70's) coach used to call the headlock a muscle move. by the mid 80's after several of us started going to greco tourney's and throw camps, it was no longer a muscle move in our coaches eyes. we found out the how, when, and where to hit it. the score can be 14 - 0 only seconds left and you can still lose! in my eyes... if you respect it, know how to use it, it is one of the best moves it the sport. if you get thrown by a reach back headlock, well you are riding too high and or hanging your head, get an anchor and this will not happen. if you get thrown in a headlock from your feet, your hips were higher than your opponent, you were driving in wrong, and had the wrong tie.