I'm sure you are proud of your son. I don't think anything about the above post indicates that you're trying to be nice about this, and you just made it personal by calling out my kid, which I had not done. If you read my post, I did not question your integrity, I said that my kid and our program do not take injury time for strategic reasons. I hate the injury time rule, and always have. Until they impose some kind of cost for calling your own injury time, some wrestlers and teams will.continue to abuse the rule. That said, even if there is a legitimate injury, I still believe there has to be a cost for being unable to continue the match. And yes, we have been in your shoes, and no he did not continue because some things are more important. If the adults charged with safe guarding your athlete's health and well-being tell you he shouldn't go, he shouldn't go. And no, I don't have sour grapes. Our wrestler's are taught to be accountable and he lost the match. It still doesn't mean that I have to like the rule. Good luck to you and your son. I hope he has a safe surgery and recovery.