Coming back, regaining composure, and taking something from a loss and then leaving it behind is a mark of any champion in any sport...The difficulty some elite kids have when going to the next level is they did not have opportunity to face adversity or loss and learn how to deal with it...Also, the great thing about our sport is get out of position just a bit and sometimes anything can happen....like getting caught (BTW, much easier to shake off a loss getting caught then a grueling 6 minute match where you simply got beat)