former130 - I have to totally disagree with you. Getting pinned is WAY worse than getting destroyed on points. The great thing about wrestling is that when the score is 28-15 and you are 1 takedown from getting teched you can still win by pinning your opponent, at which point who cares what the score was. I know it rarely if ever happens, but it does happen. Actually, it happened at the beast of the east tournament this year (the match is on flowrestling). At 171 that Ed Ruth kid (#1 seed from Blair Academy) was destroying an unseeded wrestler and got spladled. I think it's great. NCAA finals, I can't remember the exact match or year, but the guy was on the verge of getting teched, hits a cement mixer for the pin and wins the national title. Awesome stuff!
I do think there should be more of an emphasis on mat wrestling. I mean think about the scoring system. Near fall is huge! If you can score 3 near fall points you go up by 3 points. To accomplish the same thing with takedowns means you have to cut him, take him down (2-1), cut him again, take him down again (4-2), cut him again take him down again (6-3). Seems like alot more work. That being said, sometimes you need to soften the guy up on bottom by taking it to him on your feet for a while. Like Y2 said it is much better to go into the 2nd period up 4-1 or 6-2 than it is to go into it 2-0.
To the guy who said that it is bad coaching if the kid gets taken down more than 4 times in a period, then I guess you never watched Howe wrestle. I saw him take down some pretty good dudes 4 or more times in one period. I saw him go nuts on Jamal Lawrence one year he had to have at least 4 take downs in one period. He also did it to Brett Mellis and Mark Myers and I am sure the list of his victims for this category is very long.
I think that the point of the original post is when a guy continues to beat up on a kid that he should be able to pin at some point it becomes classless and I have seen that happen too. Bottom line is that sometimes you gotta take your lumps before you can give them and if you can't take a whoopin', then maybe you are in the wrong sport. The thing about wrestling is that you have to use the whoopins as fuel to get yourself better. It can make you realize that you really do have alot more work to do than you thought to get where you want to go.