When my son started wrestling it made me so mad that these kids that are clearly bigger than him were wrestling in the wrong weight class. After a while i started to notice how much better my son got wrestling larger kids, so i just started wrestling him up. If he weighed 100 pounds i'd wrestle him at 105. I looked at these small tournaments as preperation for the State and National tourneys. just like weight lifting, if you wanna get bigger lift heavier, if you dont stay light. Kids that wrestle down are only hurting themselves, and for what a $2 medal. Now it makes me laugh when I see it cause the smaller kid got better and the bigger kid just took a step backwards.
If i could do one thing I would make a challenge system. Wrestler "A" is a 75 pound novice! Wrestler "B" is in the 75 pound weight class but weighs 82 pounds. Wrestler "A" wants to challenge the weight of wrestler "B". It cost wrestler "A" $20 dollars to challenge. If wrestler "B" comes in over weight he is "DQed" and the $20 is refunded to wrestler "A". However if wrestler "B" is say within 2-3 pounds than the tourney host keeps the $20 and the kids wrestle. This would stop a challenge on every match but also make the honor system more honest! It could only be done on the first match of the day since most kids eat about $50 worth of pizza and candy as the day progresses. And byes would'nt count as the first match, it would have to be an actual match. I know that if i just drove 4 hours to a meet i would want my son to wrestle all day, not take a chance of being 3-4 pounds over and lose a challenge only to turn around and drive 4 hours back home with out ever steping on the mat.
Lucky for me (or unlucky ) these days are over untill I have grand kids. And that better be 10 years from now or i'll really be angry. My son is just a freshman and 15 years old. I see now that a few matches to a couple cheaters was the least of my worries. Try and take it with a grain of salt, bigger and better things are ahead. And remember................ "DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF AND THERE IS NO BIG STUFF", you can quote me on that!!!!!!!!