After reading some of these replies and having a few conversations, in retrospect, I almost regret posting this topic.
The purpose of this post was to create an intellectual conversation about a rule. How it came about, its interpretation, and implementation. I did not create this post to single out any person, group, team, family, or any other collective. I tried to use terms like ?we? & ?us? and even edited the post to reflect the spirit in which I was trying to come across. But somehow we?ve have strayed the other way. We have let our opinions cloud the vision of the bigger picture
I want personally & publicly apologize to anyone who was singled out or felt like they were being singled out. That was not intention.
And now we have people commenting on how ?silly? this topic is, but still feel the need to participate. Now that?s ?silly?. We have people criticizing parents for wanting the best experiences for their children and sacrificing for them, to take them to tournaments out of state. That is definitely not cool.
As we all know, this should be and is about the kids. And there is nothing wrong with having a competitive spirit as long as it is fostered in a positive way.
I just wanted to discuss a topic. As I thought that was the purpose of the message board. For individuals to share their views comfortably and confidently free from ridicule.
This rule was a decision of a group of people. No one single person calls the shots. Let?s make sure we ?don?t kill the messenger?.
Again, I apologize for creating a negative environment. And for any stress, bad emotions, or ill will that this post has created.
I love the sport of wrestling. As I?m sure we all do.
??agree to disagree is the nature of men?as long as we still respect each other in the end??