I have a small amount of cauliflower ear. I love it. It reminds me of the hard work, dedication, sacrifice and everything else we do for wrestling and I wore my head gear in practice (well most of the time). That being said, no one can visibly tell that I have it and I could care less if I gett recognition for having it. Its not for other people.. its my own reminder. I would not love it if my ear was disfigured. I don't consider nasty ears as a badge of honor and most wrestlers will grow up to be professionals and I can tell you that the corporate world does not understand the concept of wrestling let alone some job candidate's disfigured ear.
Cauliflower ears aside... why in the world don't most coaches at least make wrestlers wear head gear in practice for live wrestling? You have to wear it in a match so why would you not want to wear it in practice. Its getting to the point where I am shocked if I see a live match in which neither wrestler's head gear DOESNT come off. I'm guessing this is because kids don't wear it in practice, aren't use to wearing it and don't have it fitted properly after a few minutes of sweating during the match. I remember our coach would not let us wear multiple sweatshirts and sweatpants during practice because you don't wear those things during matches. If we needed to cut weight then that was before or after practice conditioning. To me its like asking a basketball team to practice on 9 ft goals but play on 10 ft goals. Practice the way you are going to play.