As someone who once coached a team loaded with first year wrestlers, I will attempt to give ChargerDad some perspective, although I have my doubts as to it being well received. I took over a program that was in the bottom of our conference. The enthusiasm of a coaching change, though, helped this team go from less than 10 wrestlers, to around 30. We opened our season with a dual against the best team in our conference, by far. We got hammered! I lost 10 of those kids by our next meet. Some of them had some pretty good potential, but were just really inexperienced, and not prepared to get thrown to the wolves. The next year, when the same situation came up, I chose to wrestler my experienced wrestlers varsity, and the new kids in jv matches. That meant that we wrestled some kids jv in weights that we forfeited varsity. The opposing coach didn't like that, and voiced his opinion about it, but not to me, directly, but to the referee. The referee, and a former coach both told me the same thing,"always remember that it's the other coach's job to coach his team, and your job to coach your team. You have to do what's best for your team."