Update: We had a sit down discussion last night between the two of us and felt a lot of good came from the talk. He mentioned one of the biggest reasons he doesn't want to focus on wrestling too much after the season is he doesn't want to worry about trying to control his weight. He wrestled 182lb during the season, but currently is up to 197lbs, my response to this was to just wrestle up in weight and use these tournaments as getting better, which he agreed. The second reason, is that football is his main sport and one that he would like to play at the next level if given the chance, he mentioned that wrestling is his "fun" sport and doesn't ever want it to be anything other than that.
Great feedback from the board. This is the reason I love wrestling so much, is the "family" feel you get from the majority of the people you come across in this sport.